Milestones

Remember, you should always seek the advice of a medical professional.

Early intervention is super important because it gives your child the best shot at success by tackling any issues early on. The CDC & AAP has a list of milestones that kids should hit as they grow up, so if your child isn't meeting those, it's a good idea to talk to a doctor.

At 2 months

  • Calms down when spoken to or picked up

  • Looks at your face

  • Seems happy to see you when you walk up to them

  • Smiles when you talk to or smile at them

  • Makes sounds other than crying

  • Reacts to loud sounds

  • Watches you as you move

  • Looks at a toy for several seconds

  • Holds head up when on tummy

  • Moves both arms and both legs

  • Opens hands briefly

At 4 months

  • Smiles on his own to get your attention

  • Chuckles (not a full laugh yet) when you try to make them laugh

  • Looks at you, moves, or makes sounds to get or keep your attention

  • Makes sounds like “oooo”, “ahhh” (cooing)

  • Makes sounds back when you talk to them

  • Turns head towards the sound of your voice

  • If hungry, opens mouth when they see breast or bottle

  • Looks at their hands with interest

  • Holds head steady without support when you are holding them

  • Holds a toy when you put it in their hand

  • Uses their arm to swing at toys

  • Brings hands to mouth

  • Pushes up onto elbows/forearms when on tummy

At 6 months

  • Knows familiar people

  • Likes to look at themselves in a mirror

  • Laughs

  • Takes turns making sounds with you

  • Blows “raspberries” (sticks tongue out and blows)

  • Makes squealing noises

  • Puts things in their mouth to explore them

  • Reaches to grab a toy they want

  • Closes lips to show they don’t want more food

  • Rolls from tummy to back

  • Pushes up with straight arms when on tummy

  • Leans on hands to support themself when sitting

At 9 months (Time for a developmental screening!)

  • Is shy/clingy/fearful around strangers

  • Shows several facial expressions like happy, sad, angry or surprised

  • Looks when you call their name

  • Reacts when you leave (looks, reaches for you, or cries)

  • Smiles or laughs when you play peek-a-boo

  • Makes different sounds like “mamamamama” and “babababa”

  • Lifts arms up to be picked up

  • Looks for objects when dropped out of sight (like their spoon or toy)

  • Bangs two things together

  • Gets to a sitting position by themself

  • Moves things from one hand to another hand

  • Uses fingers to “rake” food towards themself

  • Sits without support

At 12 months

  • Plays games with you, like pat-a-cake

  • Waves “bye-bye”

  • Calls a parent “mama” or “dada” or another special name

  • Understands “no” (pauses briefly or stops when you say it)

  • Puts something in a container like a block in a cup

  • Looks for things they see you hide, like a toy under a blanket

  • Pulls up to stand

  • Walks, holding on to furniture

  • Drinks from a cup without a lid, as you hold it

  • Picks things up between thumb and pointer finger, like small bits of food

At 15 months

  • Copies other children while playing, like taking toys out of a container when another child does

  • Shows you an object they like

  • Claps when excited

  • Hugs stuffed doll or other toy

  • Shows you affection (hugs, cuddles, or kisses you)

  • Tries to say one or two words besides “mama” or “dada” like “ba” or “da” for dog

  • Looks at a familiar object when you name it

  • Follows directions given with both a gesture and words. For example, they give you a toy when you hold out your hand and say “Give me the toy.”

  • Points to ask for something or to get help

  • Tries to use things the right way, like a phone, cup, or book

  • Stacks at least two small objects, like blocks

  • Takes a few steps on their own

  • Uses fingers to feed them themself some food

At 18 months (Time for a developmental screening!)

  • Moves away from you, but looks to make sure you are close by

  • Points to show you something interesting

  • Puts hands out for you to wash them

  • Looks at a few pages in a book with you

  • Helps you dress him by pushing arm through sleeve or lifting up foot

  • Tries to say three or more words besides “mama” or “dada”

  • Follows one-step directions without any gestures, like giving you the toy when you say “Give it to me.”

  • Copies you doing chores, like sweeping with a broom

  • Plays with toys in a simpler way, like pushing a toy car

  • Walks without holding on to anyone or anything

  • Scribbles

  • Drinks from a cup without a lid and may spill sometimes

  • Feeds themself with their fingers

  • Tries to use a spoon

  • Climbs on and off a couch or chair without help

At 2 years (Time for developmental screening!)

  • Notices when others are hurt or upset, like pausing or looking sad when someone is crying

  • Looks at your face to see how to react in a new situation

  • Points to things in a book when you ask, like “Where is the bear?”

  • Says at least two words together, like “More milk.”

  • Points to at least two body parts when you ask them to show you

  • Uses more gestures than just waving and pointing, like blowing a kiss or nodding yes

  • Holds something in one hand while using the other hand; for example, holding a container and taking the lid off

  • Tries to use switches, knobs or buttons on a toy

  • Plays with more than one toy at the same time, like putting toy food on a toy plate

  • – Kicks a ball

  • – Runs

  • – Walks (not climbs) up a few stairs with or without help

  • – Eats with a spoon

At 30 months (Time for a developmental screening!)

  • – Plays next to other children and sometimes plays with them

  • – Shows you what they can do by saying, “Look at me!”

  • – Follows simple routines when told, like helping to pick up toys when you say, “It’s clean-up time.”

  • – Says about 50 words

  • – Says two or more words together, with one action word, like “Doggie run”

  • – Names things in a book when you point and ask, “What is this?”

  • – Says words like “I,” “me,” or “we”

  • – Uses things to pretend, like feeding a block to a doll as if it were food

  • – Shows simple problem-solving skills, like standing on a small stool to reach something

  • – Follow two-step instructions like “Put the toy down and close the door.”

  • – Shows they know at least one color, like pointing to a red crayon when you ask, “Which one is red?”

  • – Uses hands to twist things, like turning door knobs or unscrewing lids

  • – Takes some clothes off by themself, like loose pants or an open jacket

  • – Jumps off the ground with both feet

  • – Turns book pages, one at a time, when you read to them

At 3 years

  • Calms down within 10 minutes after you leave them, like at a childcare drop off

  • Notices other children and joins them to play

  • Talks with you in conversation using at least two back-and-forth exchanges

  •  Asks “who,” “what,” “where,” or “why” questions, like “Where is mommy/daddy?”

  • Says what action is happening in a picture or book when asked, like “running,” “eating,” or “playing”

  • Says first name when asked

  • Talks well enough for others to understand, most of the time

  • Draws a circle when you show them how

  • Avoids touching hot objects, like a stove, when you warn them

  • Strings items together, like large beads or macaroni

  • Puts on some clothes by themself, like loose pants or a jacket

  •  Uses a fork

At 4 years

  • Pretends to be something else during play (teacher, superhero, dog)

  • Asks to go play with children if none are around, like “Can I play with Alex?”

  •  Comforts others who are hurt or sad, like hugging a crying friend

  • Avoids danger, like not jumping from tall heights at the playground

  • Likes to be a “helper”

  • Changes behavior based on where they are (place of worship, library, playground)

  • Says sentences with four or more words

  • Says some words from a song, story, or nursery rhyme

  • Talks about at least one thing that happened during their day, like “I played soccer.”

  • Answers simple questions like “What is a coat for?” or “What is a crayon for?”

  • Names a few colors of items

  • Tells what comes next in a well-known story

  •  Draws a person with three or more body parts

  • Catches a large ball most of the time

  •  Serves themself food or pours water, with adult supervision

  •  Unbuttons some buttons

  • Holds crayon or pencil between fingers and thumb (not a fist)

At 5 years

  • Follows rules or takes turns when playing games with other children

  •  Sings, dances, or acts for you

  • Does simple chores at home, like matching socks or clearing the table after eating

  • Tells a story they heard or made up with at least two events. For example, a cat was stuck in a tree and a firefighter saved it

  • Answers simple questions about a book or story after you read or tell it to they

  • Keeps a conversation going with more than three back-and-forth exchanges

  • Uses or recognizes simple rhymes (bat-cat, ball-tall)

  • Counts to 10

  • Names some numbers between 1 and 5 when you point to them

  • Uses words about time, like “yesterday,” “tomorrow,” “morning,” or “night”

  •  Pays attention for 5 to 10 minutes during activities. For example, during story time or making arts and crafts (screen time does not count)

  • Writes some letters in their name

  • Names some letters when you point to them

  • Buttons some buttons

  • Hops on one foot

Source: CDC.gov

Download the CDC’s free Milestone Tracker app to help you keep track of all these important developmental markers!

Just a heads-up – The info here is for general guidance only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a professional in the corresponding field for personalized recommendations